First of all! never ever let a judgment of people who surround you be important in making a choice.
Reason: You will never make the write choice, there will always be people who think that you make the wrong one.
If you chose, make the one that fits you!
We made the choice to help our son at home. We did not listen to the medical advice. If we had listen our son was now living in a institute with now hope of recovering. We how ever start the son-rise program and it was the write choice for us and our child! He is recovering and we belief that he will soon be able to start learning at a normal school.
Was it easy to make this choice? Yes and no. Most of the people who surrounding us where telling us that it was not write to putt that amount of energy in one child. It should be bad for the rest of the family and we would never have the experience to give the best medical attention to Tybalt our autistic son. We are happy that we never took this kind of advice. They thought that they where helping us the best they could and we never judge them for that but they where so wrong......